and guess what, the kid with the allergy can hide it well, nobody knows he's different. Not so in your case here. The kid who's fat? I'm pretty sure he knows he's fat, I know for damned sure the rest of the class knows he's fat. And further, my suggestion was for the kid who is eating horrible meals from home, his parents be contacted. Nobody in the school need know they had a problem, the allergy problem, now they ALL know.
Kinda big difference there and i was never suggesting all fat kids or their parents be consulted, only those where you know a problem exists with the lunch they pack. My answer is pretty much leave it alone, you will be doing more harm than good.
Consider the fact that most of the food is not liked by the kids, most of the nutritious stuff is thrown out, some parents pack BETTER nutrition than the school offers, what about the many kids who now are not eating anything at all because they don't like it? the list goes on and on, to assume all kids bring bad foods is rather foolish and unfair. To assume the principal knows better is a lark.
And please answer that question about having all kids stay for detention, it really is the same darned thing. If you feel this lunch idea is a good one, then the same logic (or lack of logic) would follow that you would keep all kids for detention. I see no difference.
Lunch:
SOME kids eat poor lunch, bad for their health.
We don't want to single anyone out
it's easier to treat all the same
detention:
SOME kids are fighting, bad for the health of all students
we don't want to single these few bad apples out
It's easier to simply treat all the same
...I see no difference
Kinda big difference there and i was never suggesting all fat kids or their parents be consulted, only those where you know a problem exists with the lunch they pack. My answer is pretty much leave it alone, you will be doing more harm than good.
Consider the fact that most of the food is not liked by the kids, most of the nutritious stuff is thrown out, some parents pack BETTER nutrition than the school offers, what about the many kids who now are not eating anything at all because they don't like it? the list goes on and on, to assume all kids bring bad foods is rather foolish and unfair. To assume the principal knows better is a lark.
And please answer that question about having all kids stay for detention, it really is the same darned thing. If you feel this lunch idea is a good one, then the same logic (or lack of logic) would follow that you would keep all kids for detention. I see no difference.
Lunch:
SOME kids eat poor lunch, bad for their health.
We don't want to single anyone out
it's easier to treat all the same
detention:
SOME kids are fighting, bad for the health of all students
we don't want to single these few bad apples out
It's easier to simply treat all the same
...I see no difference